I make thousands of choices everyday, for my future self, my current self. for the people around me, my family, my business, my team, my career.
Nothing here is hard-wired, no achievement or outcome in my life, is due to how I am “hard-wired”.
I set the tone how the day should be, to run or not to run, I decided which shampoo to use, which clothes to put on, how much coffee to drink, I choose how much cello should i practice, how much TV i watch, how much time i spend with friends, what do i do in my free time, do i help a customer or not, strategise their business, i decide what kind of daughter i want to me, how many hours should i spend with my aging mom, how many times i walk the dog, I decide who i am want to be.
It is not because of luck, or of a certain hardwiring. It’s because I made a decision to be part of the solution and not the problem.