new job description.

– Add energy to every conversation
– Ask why
– Find obsolete things on your task list and remove them
– Treat customers better than they expect
– Offer to help co-workers before they ask
– Feed the plants
– Leave things more organized than you found them
– Invent a moment of silliness
– Highlight good work from your peers
– Find other great employees to join the team
– Cut costs
– Help invent a new product or service that people really want
– Get smarter at your job through training or books
– Encourage curiosity
– Surface and highlight difficult decisions
– Figure out what didn’t work
– Organize the bookshelf
– Start a club
– Tell a joke at no one’s expense
– Smile a lot.

All the problems you have at work your workspace, is due to a leadership problem.

Someone let it happen, and didnt stop it from happening.

This is why you will always suffer, because you cannot be more efficient than what you can be. This is why, you will need your own business.


And while you want change, you need to sit in your place and wait.  For the right time and right season

Sending some love;

Dear Grandpa Eckhart;

Thank you for contributing to this world. For showing this world courage, bravery, care&concern and above else love.

You have brought alot of love to this world, your wife, family, and also to your grandkids. Im sure you are a wonderful wonderful soul. It must have been a privilege to experienced life with you.  All the wonderful memories that you shared with Seb.

In your departure, you have left multiple hearts broken and made a dent in their soul.

Im praying that they are comforted that youre in a place where youre healthy and nothing hurts and youre not struggling anymore. May you send some rainbows and love from above to them. May god place kind people at every step of their way and daily lives to help make each day a little less grey. And place people to help your family to build their lives back together after this.

Sending love to you, your family.



Being grateful for small things.

im grateful for the sunshine today.

All the aperol spritz i had yesterday and shared a good time with my friends.

im grateful that my boyfie is coming home today, i cant wait to give him a hug.

I glad for having a job where i am given the freedom to do whatever i want.

Im glad for all the kindness people has shown me lately. To help me navigate through things when it has been a little harder.


Dear Boyfie;

I want to tell you how much you mean to me.

I am thankful that you came into my life, and you have brought nothing but goodness to me, and to us.

I love when you compliment me, and tell me that I’m special (not in a retarded way), when you tell me that I have made good choices for you, I love the way you demand me to drink more water, how you encourage me to be brave (to go India alone), how you let me plan the trips, so thoroughly accommodating,  I love that you always there to help me navigate through things, am grateful that you always present opportunities for me, in front of me. I love all your hugs and kisses, and even how we hug and roll. I appreciate the times you do the dishes, find for new eateries to go to, take me on biking trips, buys me chocolates.

I hope that I can contributed as much as you have to me. You mean a lot to me. You’re the first person i want to share things with, always the last person always on my mind before i go to bed.

This makes me want to run to you, and hug you.

I love you.

“We all make choices, but in the end our choices make us.”

Circle of competence – 10,000 hours

Circle of dignity – 10,000 wounds

Today my worries are :

  • My career path and the future. I worry that my circle of competence is way too small, i constantly think that i need to add some skills and more valuable experience to my portfolio to move forward faster. It is definitely debate-able on the fast-tracked timeline and intensity of this pillar of my life. After much deliberate pull back, I truly realized that is important to me.
  • My relationship with my boyfie. This guy pushes me to be the best version of myself. I am grateful for this person.
  • I cant seem to see the end of the horizon, and it feels like im short of building blocks to build a bridge to cross this drowning tide.
  • I’m particularly worried about everything. funny. not. something is not right. I hate to say it because its a feeling, but i just dont feel at peace.